It's completely normal: Body changes, growth, sex, and sexual health

What makes this book special?

Talking about puberty and sexuality with children can be a real challenge. It's Perfectly Normal manages to turn it into a natural, informative, and taboo-free conversation. Written by Robie H. Harris and illustrated by Michael Emberley, this Family Library book has accompanied millions of families around the world. Its clear and respectful approach makes it an essential tool for parents and educators.

Unlike other resources, this book uses animated character illustrations, which makes the topics accessible and less intimidating. Readers appreciate the non-judgmental language and the way it addresses each topic naturally.

With a paperback format measuring 10.25 x 8.56 inches and 0.43 inches thick, it is manageable for children aged 8 and up. Full-color illustrations and clear diagrams complement a text that balances scientific accuracy with emotional sensitivity.

At what age should you start reading it?

Many parents wonder when the right time is. This book is designed for children aged 8 to 12, although it can be adapted depending on the child's maturity. Psychologists and pediatricians recommend it as a starting point for conversations about development.

The book is divided into sections that allow it to be read from beginning to end or to jump to specific topics. This provides flexibility to address questions as they arise at each stage. There is no perfect age, but having the book on hand helps children feel prepared when they begin to notice changes in their bodies.

What topics does it cover?

The content covers everything from the physical changes of puberty to emotions and relationships. It includes information on:

• Body growth and development (height, hair, voice changes).
• The reproductive system and reproduction.
• Personal hygiene and body care.
• New emotions and how to manage them.
• Relationships with friends and family.
• Basic concepts of consent and safety.

Everything is presented with an inclusive and gender-neutral approach, avoiding stereotypes. Readers highlight that the book treats diversity with normality and respect.

How to deal with new emotions

Puberty not only brings physical changes but also emotional ones. It's normal to feel confused, shy, or even embarrassed. This book dedicates an important section to validating those feelings and offering strategies to manage them.

It talks about the importance of talking to trusted adults and how friendships can change. It also addresses topics such as crushes and attraction, always using age-appropriate language.

Many parents have commented that these sections have helped them open conversations about emotions they previously avoided.

Frequently asked questions

Is it suitable for younger children?

Although it is recommended for 8-12 year olds, some parents use it from age 7 if the child shows curiosity. It is always best to review the content and decide based on individual maturity.

The book mentions pregnancy and infection prevention in general terms, but does not go into detail about specific methods. This allows parents to supplement according to their values and family context.

The illustrations show human bodies at different stages of development, always in a cartoon style and nothing graphic. They are intended to be informative without being disturbing.

Resources for parents

The book includes a guide for parents at the end with tips on how to use the book at home. It suggests reading it together with children and letting them guide the questions. It also recommends other titles in the series, such as It's Not the Stork! for younger children.

To get the most out of it, it can be supplemented with conversations about family values and by resolving additional questions with health professionals. Remember that this book is an educational tool, not a substitute for medical advice.