Cautiverio sexual: Liberando la inteligencia erótica (Edición aniversario)

What is "Mating in Captivity"?

Keeping passion alive in a long-term relationship is one of modern life's most complex challenges. In this anniversary edition of her classic work, renowned therapist Esther Perel explores the paradox between domestic security and erotic desire. With a profound and liberating perspective, the book invites readers to question assumptions about life as a couple and rediscover intimacy from a fresh viewpoint. Originally published in 2006, this book has transformed the way we understand love and desire, becoming an essential reference for those seeking a more fulfilling relationship.

How does it address the tension between love and desire?

One of the central questions this book poses is: why does sexual desire often fade when love deepens? Perel argues that domesticity and routine can extinguish the erotic flame, but not due to a lack of love, but rather an excess of security. Through real-life cases and psychological reflections, the author reveals how the need for stability can clash with the search for novelty and mystery. The book suggests that desire needs a separate space, a certain psychological distance, to flourish. Thus, it offers tools to integrate eros into daily life without commitment stifling it.

Benefits of reading this book

Readers have highlighted its illuminating approach and its ability to reframe intimacy in a couple. This book can help you to:

• Better understand the dynamics of desire in stable relationships.
• Identify patterns that limit passion.
• Open difficult conversations about sex and expectations.
• Explore new ways to connect with your partner, beyond routine.

It is an enriching read for those in a relationship as well as for therapists and mental health professionals.

About Esther Perel

Esther Perel is a Belgian-American psychotherapist, internationally recognized for her work on human relationships and sexuality. She speaks nine languages and has advised couples and businesses worldwide. She is the author of several books and host of the podcasts "Where Should We Begin?" and "How's Work?". Her approach combines clinical psychology with a unique cultural sensitivity, making her an authoritative voice in the field of intimacy and desire. This anniversary edition includes new prefaces and reflections that update her message for the current context.

Frequently asked questions

Is it necessary to have read the original edition?

No, this anniversary edition is completely independent and includes the full text of the original work, plus new material.

Is the book based on scientific research?

Yes, Perel combines her clinical experience with studies in psychology and sociology, offering a well-founded and accessible vision.

Can it help couples in crisis?

It offers valuable perspectives that can complement professional therapy, but it does not replace the help of a psychologist or specialized therapist.